…there can be no real joy for anybody until there is joy finally for us all

There are some TV commercials that I really like.
For instance, the cable company commercial where
two dorky boys suck on helium and then talk to each
other in silly voices about watching movies and the
car company commercials where dogs are the drivers
and riders.

But there are some commercials that I really dislike.
For instance, the car company commercials where
a man and a woman (in separate versions of the
same commercial) stand in their driveway talking
to their neighbors and one-up them by showing off
their supposedly great, new, bargain purchase, a
giant SUV in the driveway in comparison to the paltry
purchase their neighbors are removing from their
car. It appeals to the worst instincts of selfishness,
covetousness, envy. It strikes me as a commercial
Donald Trump would like.

Today, I read a meditation that appeals to our
higher, nobler nature. Rather than attempt a
a poor paraphrase, I offer it in the words of
the great writer himself:

Frederick Buechner Quote of the Day:

Something Better and Truer

There was the day I signed the contract for that first novel that I had started in college, for instance. It was a major event for me, needless to say — the fulfillment of my wildest dreams of literary glory. But of the actual signing itself in the offices of Alfred Knopf — who was there and what was said and how I felt — I remember nothing. What I remember instead is leaving the publisher’s office afterwards and running into somebody in the building whom I had known slightly at college. He was working as a messenger boy, he told me. I was, as I thought, on the brink of fame and fortune. But instead of feeling any pride or sense of superior accomplishment by the comparison, I remember a great and unheralded rush of something like sadness, almost like shame. I had been very lucky, and he had not been very lucky, and the pleasure that I might have taken in what had happened to me was all but lost in the realization that nothing comparable, as far as I could see, had happened to him. I wanted to say something or do something to make it up to him, but I had no idea how or what and ended up saying nothing of any consequence at all, least of all anything about the contract that I had just signed. We simply said goodbye in the lobby, he going his way and I mine, and that was that. All I can say now is that something small but unforgettable happened inside me as the result of that chance meeting — some small flickering out of the truth that, in the long run, there can be no real joy for anybody until there is joy finally for us all and I can take no credit for it. It was nothing I piously thought my way to. It was no conscious attempt to work out my own salvation. What I felt was something better and truer than I was, or than I am, and it happened, as perhaps all such things do, as a gift.

~ originally published in The Sacred Journey and Listening to Your Life

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