Well, Dippity Do, you do what you know you need to do in order to get through and confirm your allegiance to the philosophy of enlightened self-interest, in spite of the fact that we should all do things for altruistic, at least, and, preferably, really compassionate reasons. That having been said, you, Dippity Do, in order for you to do to get through, you have to come clean. Yes, when the recent widow reached out, you got offended and mean, when she wrote that in a photo of you and your new Chocolate Lab you looked “precious.” It was the “precious” thing, which you bristled to, and, so, you, after one too many glasses of wine, shot off a really snitty e-mail whine, which has resulted in her being hurt beyond belief and you being a complete jerk. So, what to do in order for you to get through? Make amends, ask for forgiveness, change your behavior and learn how to spell “expiation.” Marianne Williamson agrees.