Buddy Died While We Were Away
Buddy died while we were away.
From inside the pool area we would watch them
Walk slowly, haltingly on the sidewalk on the
Other side of the fence. She always led the way,
He had something clever, comical, endearing to say.
Buddy died while we were away.
She stopped us on the street one day
And said that he had died. We knew he had
Had many physical ailments but we
Hadn’t expected that he would pass away.
Oh, we knew he was on thin ice, prostate,
Brittle bones from prednisone, four-way
Bypass. I helped him one day struggle up
Three steps with the aid of a walker.
She, of course, led the way.
Buddy died while we were away.
Death, been there, done that, our own way.
We would take her out for lunch one day
She refused to sit in the front seat, a wife’s
place is next to her husband, she would say.
She gave me directions along the way
To the restaurant we chose. She was
Use to leading the way.
She had done it their whole life together;
It just naturally became her way.
A secular Sephardi Jew who speaks Spanish
With a New York accent, she took care of Buddy,
The baby boy with three older sisters and a Jewish
Mother. For Buddy, being taken care of was just okay.
It came naturally to let her lead the way.
Her Spanish comes in handy everyday
In the city that rises from ashes everyday.
She volunteers here and there to keep
Herself busy along the way
Now that Buddy has passed away.
We went to lunch again and she spoke
with pride of her two sons and their wonderful
Baptist and Catholic wives. That was just okay
Because they loved and led her
Boys along the way.
She insisted that we couldn’t go to lunch
again unless we allowed her to pay.
We said okay.
Buddy died while we were away
And she kept going by leading the way.